All our new users are required to verify their email address prior to completing a dating profile.
Again, I believe that movies and the Hip Hop culture play a role in this ridiculous behavior.
How do you deal with it? Or I send you a smiley fact that will take away your fear.
I think asking users to answer a few basic compatibility questions in their profile might offset this.
Some of them dream about being in a relationship with a marshmallow.
The reason why these customs are slowly disappearing is that African women no longer see themselves as property to be traded between families, to the benefit of almost everyone else except the bride.